Ralph Fiennes spent some of this spring's A Bigger Splash having a You're covered in rejected black-guy sperm, it says. They come north for business, he said, and half the time, they impregnate a young, white girl. Black men were bludgeoned and lynched for so little as speaking to white women. I'm a black woman. I'm black and my friend Kim is white, as was the guy in question. Interracial relationships aren't a big deal nowadays.